To My GLBTQ Friends (Mormon and Otherwise)

I've been thinking about posting something like this for a while. As I have been reading and teaching about GLBTQ literature in my children lit courses, I have been thinking about the obligation I have to create safe spaces for those who need them.

So here is my official declaration of safety and support to gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning individuals everywhere.

If you are reading this, please know that you can count on me to listen. To be there for you. If and when you are ready to come out, I will love you forever and for always no matter what.

Friend, family, or random stranger--this is my promise to you: I will do everything I can to listen, to celebrate, to rejoice in who you are.

And a special note to those of the LDS faith who may be hiding their sexuality from everyone, even themselves:

You are loved. You are special. You have a right to love and family and happiness. You are amazing just the way you are. I can't attempt to reconcile your faith with your sexuality, but I will say that I believe with all my heart that God made you just the way you are for a reason. And you are not expected to live a life alone or celibate or hiding or in the closet.

I promise you, no matter who you are, that I will love you and support you.

When you are ready to come out to me, I will be here.